There’s nothing in the world like the fun & support of a great group of gal pals!! We women know how love our friends fiercely! Yet, we know that when God gives a gift (like female friendship!) the enemy tries to take it.
The enemy’s will for you is always the same: Distract, Discourage, & Divide. The enemy uses these strategies because they work! He DOES NOT want you to have good & deep friendships. He loves it when God’s people battle!
What’s our strategy when conflict arises or feelings are hurt?
1. STEP BACK! We all like to think we know what the other person is thinking. We don’t. Choose to believe the best about your friend
2. In every conflict, LOOK WITHIN first. Ask yourself,”Did I hurt this friend unknowingly?”
3. Choose NOT to be offended! Pride blocks peace! Go low.
3. ASK GOD to pull out any root of bitterness you carry toward a friend(s). Stop rehearsing hurtful things said to you. You CHOOSE freedom!
4. LEARN HOW to fight jealousy. It will always be part of our flesh. When you smell the odor of jealousy creeping up, say to yourself, “God has a great plan for me-He made me gifted & beautiful. I don’t want anyone else’s life-I want mine!” Does this help today? Know that God wants to bless you with rich female friendships centered on Himself! He wants your relationships to radiate the peace of Jesus-based sacrificial love to a lonely world.
Such valuable advice for any relationship in my life. Perfect timing for me to read this. Thanks Tristie!